When you perceive someone as being "inferior" to
you, you may just be intuitively reading how they feel about themselves. My jargon is that you are reading their
"pictures." A clairvoyant sees the energy ("vibes") people
send out as visual mental image pictures.
For example, when someone is feeling insecure, you might see an image in
your mind's eye of them acting nervous as they try to explain something. For
those who are not aware of their clairvoyance (ability to see pictures), they might feel
the nervousness.
It's important to learn how to read people's energy and
pictures from a space of neutrality. You can read people without judgment or
other emotional reactions. As soon as you move from neutrality to judgment,
then you are projecting your own insecurities (or shall I say
"inferiorities?") onto them. Judgment
comes in the form of feeling superior
and making judgments that you are better than them. Actually, this usually happens
instantaneously and automatically. We
all have programming to be judgmental.
It's a defensive mechanism. When
you are judging someone, you are looking through your pictures of whom you think they are. Once again, you are projecting your own
insecurities onto them. These are
usually traits or feelings about yourself of which you are not aware. "Who
me? I'm not a weak person, I'm strong!" Everyone has both strengths and
weaknesses. When you don't acknowledge
your weaknesses, then you have to project them onto someone else. When you acknowledge and own your weaknesses,
then you see yourself as human; and you see other people as human. You can see that each person is on a unique
spiritual path, just like you!
When you find yourself begrudging someone's achievements, or
wishing them ill, you are affecting your own reality more than you are
affecting them. (Jut remember the grade
school chant: "Whatever you say bounces off of me and sticks to
you!"). Begrudgment and ill-will
are expressions of your own limiting beliefs. The energy you send out into the world comes
back to (haunt) you. It is a great
opportunity for stepping back and looking inward at the underlying energy and
programming in your space.
People of whom you are judgmental are your teachers! When you can catch yourself being judgmental,
again you can take a step back and ask yourself why are you feeling defensive,
and what is it that you are projecting.
This can work for other "funny little feelings" that are
triggered in you by other people.
"Why does this person annoy me?"; "Does this person
remind me of someone who controls me?"; "Am I in competition with
this person?" By pinpointing the
energy underlying your emotional reactions to people, you learn about yourself,
accomplish some spiritual growth, and let go of your inferiority complex for
good.
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